



We love coffee. By that, I mean LOVE. Like capital letters L-O-V-E. It's becoming an addiction for Wayne and I. We have a cute little coffee shop in town called Field of Beans which we frequent quite often. Our drink of choice is a 'Tall double shot Mocha with caramel on the whip'...mmmmm yummy. It's so good. Today we were in Fargo with our friend Emily and some Hillcrest students. We dropped the kids off at the mall and ran for Starbucks. Can I just say 'Cinnamon Dulce Latte'...? Oh yah, that's what I'm talkin' bout! If you get the chance, try one. It's a little like having a piece of heaven with every sip or gulp...however you drink it! Wayne took some creative photos at the Bucks.
1.22.2006
Coffee coffee coffee
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Jan 21




Day 'O' birth for my handsome husband! We were very blessed to be able to spend a day and a half at our friend's cabin. Saturday was filled with much relaxing, reading, baking cookies, eating nachos, some more reading, fresh winter air, some good quality chat time, eating the cookies that we baked, drinking coffee, a beautiful star-filled sky in the silence of the country...what could be better really? Well, being together with my best friend. That was the best part of it all. Just him and I. I and him. Time well spent and a retreat much needed! Thanks to our wonderful friends for opening up their cozy place for us to be refreshed.
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1.16.2006
1.06.2006
The many faces of Kaia!




Here's my niece Kaia. She's a hoot. She just turned 4! We were at a Hillcrest basketball game the other night and I took some pics of her and she made some crazy faces. She keeps us laughing. Love you Kaia SarahAnn.
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1.04.2006
First pics with the new cam!




Just some fun pics. I've been playing around with all the features of the cam. It's great. There's still lots to learn on it though. I'll have to dig into the owner's manual soon I guess. For now, I'll stick to the easy stuff! More to come...
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Busy busy busy
The girls in the video are my nieces. The littlest ones are twins...Logan and Laci and they are 2 1/2 and the older one is Kaia. She's almost 4. They are busy busy busy girls, but so fun! They make me laugh.
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1.03.2006
Soon and very soon.

Okay, so Wayne and I only wanted a digital camera for Christmas and we ordered it on Christmas day from the internet. When we called a few days later, the guy told us that we'd have it by the end of the week. That was last week. It has not shown up yet but I'm anticipating that it will be here tomorrow. I'm pretty stoked to start snappin' away. It's so fun to be able to post pics for all ya'll to see. We got a Panasonic Lumix DMC-FX9S. Here's a pic of it.
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1.02.2006
Hurricane Katrina



My husband has left for one week to go down to Mississippi. He is with 17 others who are doing relief work for Katrina victims. They are staying at a church in Gulfport and will be working there and in Biloxi. I'm so glad that he has the opportunity to head down there, yet I'm a little sad that I'm without him for a week. God will do amazing things through them, I just know it. Here are a few pictures of the devastation. These are from the last trip.
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12.19.2005
My sista Julie
This is Julie. She and I just became sisters a few months ago. She is married to J.P. who is Wayne's brother. We got married only about a month apart. I first met Julie at the Stender family Thanksgiving in Waconia, MN at one of the extended families home. Wayne and I were barely dating then and Julie and J.P. had been together through high school. Right from the beginning, Jules and I have been friends. She's always ready to talk and listen and be a shoulder to cry on. Within the few months before she and J.P. and Wayne and I were married, we spent many hours planning and preparing and talking and gabbing about our big days and all that comes along with weddings. It was so much fun and she definately kept me on track with when I needed to have this or that done. I have learned a lot from Julie in the time that I've known her and I look forward to holidays spent together and many more memories made as we get to know eachother better. I love ya Jules.
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12.15.2005
Hillcrest's annual Christmas banquet
Emily, me, Diane and Stacy at the banquet... aka the Fab Four...aka girls dorm resident life staff!

Some of the beeeeautiful norwegian girls!
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12.13.2005
Proudly introducing...
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12.06.2005
NASHVILLE, TENNESSEE




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Florida days



The time in Florida was so wonderful! I probably could've stayed there for a few more days soaking up the sun. We were in Florida over Thanksgiving and we ended up taking Emily to the airport in Miami so she could fly to North Carolina to watch Messiah College girls and boys soccer teams play in the final four and WIN! It's the first time in history that both teams have won the championship. Messiah is where she went to college and played soccer! After we dropped her off at the airport, we drove back to Boca Raton and had McDonalds for our sweet Thanksgiving dinner. Yipee.
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11.30.2005
Just some random Revolve Tour photos
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11.29.2005
Waaaaayyy tooo long, I know.
Hey friends... well, you already know by this point that this blogging thing hasn't really been the easiest thing for me to do. Partly because I'm a procrastinator and partly because I've been busy busy busy. But that shouldn't be an excuse. I guess I could say that I'm sorta waiting until we get a digital camera because I love the picture blogs. I'll keep trying though!
I want to tell you all about our trip to Nashville, Tennessee and Boca Raton, Florida. And I want to show some pictures but I don't have them yet...so I'll give a few details and then post the pics when I get them.
Wayne and I and some other friends attended the National Youth Workers Conference in Nashville from Nov 17-21. It was amazing. We had praise and worship led by the David Crowder Band and Chris Tomlin. We attended seminars and heard speakers like Doug Fields (author of 'Purpose driven youth ministry' and Youth Pastor at Saddleback church), Louie Giglio and many others. We were able to hear the talented artists Jars of Clay, Third Day, Tobymac and Starfield (whom we got to meet and they were super cool because they are totally Canadian and it made my heart smile)... we were able to get some sweet resources for Campus Ministries here at school. It was just awesome. THEN... us and our totally sweet friends, Emily, Matt and Goddy rented a car and drove down to Boca Raton, FL...which is really close to Fort Lauderdale which is also close to Miami. We stayed at Matt's gramma's condo right on the ocean and soaked up the sun for 4 amazingly beautiful days. We layed on the beach and took it all in. Oh wow! It was gorgeous. Everyday was perfect weather and it was just a relaxing and refreshing break.
Sidenote: My friend Emily is so fun. She came out here from New Jersey, not knowing anyone that well and jumped right into deaning here at Hillcrest. She also coached girls soccer this year and she teaches jr high phys.ed. It's been a blessing and a half to have another sista living right here at school. This is a crazy pic of her!
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11.10.2005
totally consumed by envy,
in your very presence.
I'm still in your presence,
but you've taken my hand.
You wisely and tenderly lead me,
and then you bless me.
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10.24.2005
Women of Faith Conference
Here's a group of us that went to Women of Faith. There were a few more that didn't get in the picture for some reason. Fun weekend!
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Been a while...
Well, I'm not that great at blogging and I'm sorry for not updating you all for a while. I just got back yesterday from a weekend of fun girl time, shopping, good talks and a great reminder of how God is in control of everything and how He longs for us to come to Him with everything. I took off to Minneapolis with a bunch of girlfriends and we attended the Women of Faith conference. It was awesome. Spent an extra day with two friends and we shopped and relaxed and did some catching up. It was much needed and something I've been looking forward to for a whole year. Now its Monday and its back to work and life in Fergus Falls! Until next year...
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10.08.2005
HIM
What a guy! Ever since we became friends, he has made me smile. And he will do whatever he can to make me smile. About the time that we started dating, I came home from Thanksgiving break and when I walked into my apartment, he had set up a little Christmas tree and the song... "Feels like home" by Chantal Kreviazuk was playing. As I walked in further, I saw two little candles burning and the words..."to c u smile" were written out in mini reese's peanut butter cups on the table. There was a cute little note that said he missed me. I think I was brought to tears! He is a romantic. He cares for me deeply and will do anything to protect me. He is going to be a fantastic father when the day comes. He's truly a man constantly seeking God's heart. What a blessed day when he walked into my life. Thank you Lord for him.
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10.04.2005
I love hockey!

The time has finally come for all of us good ol' hockey fans. NHL is back in season! And my wonderful husband got us two tickets to the season opener tomorrow night. Minnesota Wild vs. Calgary Flames. We are both so excited to see some sweet hockey skills! I'm proud to be canadian... especially when it comes to hockey. Over half of the Minnesota players are canadian and that just makes me smile. And then there's Jerome Iginla and he makes me smile too. I'm looking forward to cheering on the Flames even though I'm in Wild country. I'll be wearing red with pride. Go Flames Go!!
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9.25.2005
God, I'll never comprehend them!
I couldn't even begin to count them--
any more than I could count the sand of the sea.
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9.15.2005
9.14.2005
wedding wedding wedding
Some more pictures from our wedding. The middle one is my sisters Heather and Susanne. They are so beautiful aren't they? They are my best friends. Heather is 10 years older than me and Susanne is 8 years older. But to me, there is no age gap. I can talk to them about anything and they have mentored me, comforted me, laughed with me, cried with me (a lot, cuz I'm a crier!), shared scripture with me, supported me, they've always kept in contact with me wherever I've been around the world. Most of all they've loved me unconditionally! And I'm so thankful that God blessed me with them as my closest friends. There is a special bond as sisters and I don't know what I'd do without them!
The bottom picture is Wayne and I with our wedding party. We have such great friends and it was awesome to have them as witness' to our committment. Wayne has two younger brothers and he has so much respect and love for them. There is also a cool bond between brothers and its awesome that he's blessed with J.P. and Andrew!
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9.13.2005
9.12.2005
THE KIDS!
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9.11.2005
MY HEROS

My mom and dad. Jim and Sharon. Jimmy and Shari-babe! Many names but what it comes down to is the most loving, patient, caring, generous, forgiving and gracious parents anyone could ever ask for. What a blessing it is to be raised by these two beautiful people and to be able to call them my parents.
"Children, do what your parents tell you. This is only right. 'Honor your father and mother' is the first commandment that has a promise attached to it, namely, 'so you will live well and have a long life.' " ~Ephesians 6:1-3 ~the Message
I know at times I haven't always kept that commandment of honoring thy father and mother... but I know that God has surrounded me with loving Christian friends and two fantastic sisters who have influenced me to desire what God wants for my life. God commands me to honor my parents and do what they say and my prayer is that I have been honorable to them. As I think about having my own children, I hope and pray that Wayne and I can be even half the parents that Jim and Sharon have been to me! Thank you mom and dad for praying for me! For loving me and protecting me and for sacrificing so much for your daughters. I love you so much.
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9.07.2005
"Mostly what God does is love you. Keep company with him and learn a life of love. Observe how Christ loved us. His love was not cautious but extravagant. He didn't love in order to get something from us but to give everything of himself to us. Love like that." ~Ephesians 5:2
What a verse to live by! Learn a life of love. If everyone in the world gave a little more love, and not loving just to get something, but truly selfless love.... can you even imagine what this place would look like. Hard to picture. But what a blessing we have in God's word. His true and faithful promises to LOVE us even though we sin against Him everyday. He is so good!
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